I've got an idea about the Final fantasy game im going to use as a base FF VI
if you think i should use a nother tell me please.
That's gonna be HARD. MAybe RPG maker has a game mode that can do this. ( Someone help me here ).
Either that or you can code a FF style Fan-made game from scratch and have online play in
the game engine.

Nope. RM is about as sophisticated as a rock. (Well... that's mean... but still...). Your best bet, if you don't know C++ (or Java, I guess), is Game Maker... :/ But I think many, MANY people here are going to tell you to learn C++...